Are you providing a dating service, or a marriage agency?
Both. Most men and women who are searching for a partner need to develop their relations in the hope of falling in love. If you succeed in your relationship with your chosen girl, then it is for you both to decide whether you would like to commit to marriage at some point in the future.
What type of man are the girls on your site looking for?
Girls alike throughout the whole world desire love and security for their future family. We are not matchmakers, but we do provide you with the opportunity to meet as many girls face to face as you desire, therefore increasing the likelihood of finding a suitable partner.
How do we know that the girl is not just after your money?
The girls on our website are not economic immigrants that you may associate with China or Thailand. Many girls in Kiev work and earn enough to live. However a girl cannot work and raise a family also. Unfortunately there is a shortage of the right type of men who are able to provide for a family.
It sounds too good to be true. Are there really so many beautiful single girls?
We estimate that about 50% of the girls you write to will be single, and available. We cannot say all the girls are single, because people's circumstances may change overnight.
We will always ensure there are many more available girls on our site than there are male members, unlike UK dating websites. If you got a reply from every single girl you write to, then it would be time to get suspicious.
Where is Kiev, and is it safe there?
Kiev is becoming a very popular city for tourism and it is a mere 3.5 hour flight away from the UK. Kiev is the capital city of Independent Ukraine. In December last year you may have seen the Orange Revolution reported. This passed quickly and was considered trouble free by the press. Not long after the European Song Contest was held in Kiev, which was televised around the world. For more information about Ukraine, or any other destination, visit www.fco.gov.uk
Why do you not have girls from the UK on your website?
The concept of dating, online dating and matchmaking services has been accepted in the UK for around 10 years. When Internet dating first started, the prospect of finding a girl in the UK was quite high. However now men are finding that they are having little or no luck finding a date in the UK. In fact, the ratios on UK websites we believe are extremely weighted against men. In short, there are about 1.5 million more girls in the Ukraine than there are men. In the United Kingdom there are 1.5 million more men. The figures would be entirely different if you compared the amount of pretty slim girls in the Ukraine, to those in the United Kingdom.
Why are the girls so slim in Ukraine?
The Ukraine has not succumbed to the excesses of food and alcohol consumption. The United Kingdom is rapidly catching up with America, with over 50% of people overweight and 20% clinically obese. Furthermore, Ukraine girls are exceedingly proud to be slim and stay slim and have a traditional attitude to looking their best at all times.
Is your service the same as mail-order Russian brides?
Not at all. Firstly, our dating services will take you to meet your chosen girls in Kiev etc. If you feel you have found your chosen girl, then if you would like her to be with you, in the United Kingdom, the USA, Europe or anywhere else in the world, then you will have to satisfy the particular Embassy with their particular Visa requirements. Bringing your girl home will be subject to the laws of the land, of which we do not write. When the time comes for you to invite your girl to be with you, then we will guide you with the most up to date advice that we have available for a successful Visa application.
How many girls should I meet?
We recommend you meet at least 10 women. It is difficult to meet more than 2/3 per day, however, the more you meet, and communicate with, the more likely you will find that common understanding that you need tobuild a successful relationship. Our service is not like speed dating. We understand that you need to spend time with girls to find out if it is right for you, so the more time you have will also help. You should try to spend at least one week on a tour, meeting as many girls as you can in the first few days, and then re-meeting your favourite girls forthe remainder until you have decided on your favourite.
Is it difficult to get a Visa to bring your girl home?
Each embassy has different requirements. We will guide you with the up to date requirements when you feel you have found your suitable partner.
Do you have to marry the girl to bring them home?
Again, Visa requirements vary from Embassy to Embassy and we will guide you when required.
How is it possible to meet girls who speak a different language?
More and more girls are learning to speak English now and our language is becoming more and more popular. We have had situations where a guy has met a girl with a translator initially and very soon after they have simply decided to manage with a dictionary. Many girls are able to learn our language very quickly.
What age group is acceptable?
It is very normal to have an age gap between the western man and the Ukrainian girl. 10 years is the average age gap but it is frequently above this. Clearly we do not promote that a 60 year old man to choose 18-year-old girl. All girls on our site must be over 18 years old, and many girls express what age group they feel comfortable to meet.
Are these beautiful Russian and Ukrainian Girls easy to get on with?
Yes, most of them are. Ukrainian girls and Russian women are down to earth, extremely educated, very family oriented and not spoiled by unreasonable western woman's expectations. Age difference is much less of an issue. Eastern Central European girls - women are very mature for their age and regard older men as far more reliable, more stable and secure. They are looking for what all people are looking for: security, fair living environment and a person to love and be loved by them.
Are these girls looking for a passport out?
No, many girls would much prefer to stay in there own country, if only they had the same basic things that you do. Home life and everyday living conditions in Eastern Europe are much worse than the UK or America. Living conditions are for many far better in UK and America of course, and most Russian girls throughout their womanhood could never dream of the pleasures that are taken for granted and experienced in the West.
Will she love me and then leave me?
No! You are the sponsor of her visa and she must stay with you and only you or return to her country before the end of 90 or 180 days (Dependent on country). She is not allowed to run off or marry someone else because she would be in violation of the visa. If the girl violates the visa she will permanently lose status and will, without doubt, be deported. All the girls understand this very well. A girl is not going to give up the best years of her life to be with someone she does not love. She is not going to accept a visa invitation if they do not think strongly that you, the sponsor, are a future lover and partner, and potential family person, if you are not viable candidate for marriage.
There must be some women that are not serious?
If there are, they are very few on our site. It is obvious that they are looking for just the same thing you are and everyone else in the world wants. They want to spend their life with someone they can love. They want the basic human right to found a family with dignity. They want romance, love and affection, like every other normal person in the world.
Why don't the chose Ukraine and Russian men?
There are many good marriage oriented men in Russian and Ukraine but there are also many that are not. The man generally is the provider who goes and earns (or hunts) to put food on the table for the wife to cook. This is, unfortunately, not so easy for a Ukrainian man and it can be very difficult to provide for the family. Some jobs pay well, but these are scarce. A mans pride is weakened if he can not provide for his loved ones. Turning to drink is not owned by these men alone; however the pressure to do so in life is much more overwhelming than Welfare societies, where single mothers abound by virtue of the taxpayer.
You're having us on?
Visit us in Kiev and we will show you the reality of your true life situation, where you can meet beautiful girls, as often and as many as you like. Our staff are constantly adding new girls who join our website, taking photographs and adding them at their computer terminals every day. Men are increasingly becoming aware of our service. How many years will it take for you to realize and change your life while you can? The clock is ticking for all of us so we all need to take action and realize our dreams.
Do the girls know how to speak English?
More and more girls in Ukraine and Russian are learning how to speak English. Most girls can speak some words. Our site allows you to choose the level of spoken English that a girl can speak. They will soon learn, so don't make that mistake because chemistry is the most important thing a relationship can have.
Money?
You can change English Sterling at many hotels. Bring some Dollars also because some places do not. Use your cash card to withdraw currency also. Change money to Hryvna (pronounced Grivna's) when you are here.
How do I contact these women?
Join our site by selecting your favoured joining option.
Can the girl come to England to meet me, rather than me go to Kiev...?
No. We are a dating / marriage agency therefore the visa that is required is a fiancée visa. You would not have the appropriate documents to arrange this. We will not commit visa fraud by trying to give any other reason for her visiting you. We will assist in every way we can to help you have a smooth trip to meet your girls.
How can you prove these girls are for real?
Join the site and write about 10 letters to your favourite ladies using your free initial letters. All initial letters are free. We estimate you will get a 50% response from ladies. Girls circumstances do change due to work commitments, and normal life circumstances, but most of the available ladies on our dating site are looking to find a suitable partner. Not all girls notify us as they should if their circumstances change, but if we are made aware that a girl is not available for dating and no longer is seeking a serious relationship with a foreign man we remove that lady from the site. We add new girls all the time. When you meet these girls, or chat with them if we arrange for you to telephone them, or you book a trip to meet them, you will know they are real.
Why do Russian girls or Ukraine women not want to find a Russian or a Ukrainian man?
If the girls could find a partner that does not drink, and especially that does not have many girlfriends already they would consider it. Obviously many Russian or Ukraine girls have married men from their own region. If they could find one that had a job and could provide for the family, and was not likely to beat up the girl, then they would. The economic problem causes Ukraine ladies and Russian girls to be disappointed in such men, and that is why many Ukraine and Russian girls seek foreign men using dating services such as ours for relationship development, dating or marriage to provide a stable family environment. It is important to understand that many of these girls are doctors, teachers, in professional roles and are very highly educated.
How many girls should I write to?
We recommend you initially write to 10 ladies, and see how many replies from these girls you get that are available in one week. We estimate a 50% response by women to your letters. All your first initial letters to all women are totally free of charge. We do not charge the ladies to reply. We do not sell dud addresses like many dating agencies, where you have to use postal mail, and are highly unlikely to get an answer, probably because it never got their in the first place. You will know within one week or before with our system if the girls is available and interested, and up to that point it has cost you nothing. If you try to contact a lady and she is not available, that is the reply you will get and it will be free of charge. It is the only efficient way to establish communications with these ladies. If there is an extended delay in getting a reply to you from you lady, then you will receive a free customer services message explaining why the girl is slow to reply. Our dating service is highly unique and extremely thorough.
Can I order the girls addresses?
No we do not sell girls addresses. Many agencies that do this are actually selling false addresses, or those that are well out of date because the women have moved or are no longer interested because they have now found a partner. Our system allows you to send all your first letters for free, and this is a 100% way of knowing whether or not you have been able to contact the lady. You will know 100% if she is available, not available or not interested, and if either of the latter two, there is no charge whatsoever. It is the best and most controlled system of communication.
If I join, will girls write to me first (ABSOLUTELY NOT)?
At the moment it is our policy NOT to allow girls to begin the communications by writing first. Indeed that is how many scam operations work. Would it not be obvious, if a lady contacts you first that she has probably contacted many other men also? Is that the type of girl you want? In some circumstances agencies allow their girls to write letters even before you have added your photo - something not quite right when that happens, so we do not allow it. All you need to do is choose 10 girls and we will see if they would like to correspond, and we estimate 50 % will. If your response is lower, simply choose another 10 ladies because it cost nothing to do so (all your initial messages are free). This is the only fair way to ensure more of our girls / lady members get some equal interest. Our system deters scammers.
I am a girl and how do I register my profile on your website?
Send us an email at ukraine@englishdreams.com and we will send you a document to complete for registration.
I do not live in England, so how do I pay for your dating services, and I want to join and write to the girls but I do not have a credit card?
Please contact us by email and we will make special arrangements, usually bank transfer or Western Union, or more simply, a cheque through the post, after we have agreed terms.
I live in Australia, would women be interested in living there?
Most women are simply looking for the right man to love and be loved by. Where you are from is mostly irrelevant. I would suggest some girls would prefer to be closer to home, due to girlfriends and relatives etc, but the new romance, relationship and family arrangements would take precedence. Most European Countries, just like Australia, Canada, America, France, Germany offer similar lifestyles, so what we would suggest is meet lots of ladies and find out whom would be interested such a locality. Many ladies will be no doubt very keen to go to Australia, especially if love is involved.
How do I know if a lady has been on the site for a while, or if the girl has just joined?
When we are actively recruiting and adding new girls you will see the better looking ladies appear right at the very front of our dating site, but not all the women go on the front page. To be more precise on this you should email us and we will tell you the I.D number of the most recent woman added to the site. For example we are currently up to lady I.D 1202. Therefore all you would have to do is search our site by I.D number, from girl 1202 backwards, and you will know they are the most recent girls.
What does it cost to join the site?
It is actually free, however this sounds too good to be true doesn't it. You can go through the join procedure and access your member control panel to have a look around and search girls, and save them to your favourite's folder etc. However to activate your account, so that you can send all your free letters of introduction to girls, you must add a nominal £5 credit to your account to validate that you are at least 18 years old. All women on our site must also be 18 year old girls at least. When you have added your nominal £5 credit, you then pay for further correspondence individually, by keeping your account in credit. We also have other options that could work out cheaper in the long run, dependent on your level of letter writing activity to your chosen ladies.
Can I talk to someone who has used your dating service and been to Kiev to meet girls?
Shortly we are going to develop a forum, where active members can communicate freely with each other to share their experiences, achievements and concerns about our internet dating services. At the moment members are able to submit their testimonials about their experiences with dating girls which is quite interesting reading. Unfortunately, we are unable to provide direct details of our members as we must provide total confidentiality to all our members. However, you can get all the guidance you require from our staff that are very experienced in traveling to Kiev etc. and they will be happy to speak to you and answer your questions, and even phone you back.
Can I write using standard postal services to these ladies?
We do not offer this service for the following reasons. You have no way to be certain that the actual address you write to is correct, or whether the girl is truly single and available, whereas our internal communication system between men and girls provides certainty in communications. Also, using registered post is more expensive, and takes much longer than using our internal communication system. Also, who would translate your letter to your lady if you wrote it direct? If you received no answer you would actually never know if the lady got the letter at all, or whether the girl got it and put it in the trash. Our internal communication system saves time and money, and saves a lot of frustration of not knowing.
Do the girls have to pay for writing to men?
No, women can send their replies using our internal communication system for free.
I have written, using "all initial letters for free" to 10 ladies, and I've only got two letters back. All the rest of the women were not interested or not available.
Great, so you have two proper replies from interested ladies. You were not charged anything for all the work that went in to finding out if those other eight girls were available. All you need to do is send out more of your free initial letters until you get enough ladies who are available. You should email us if your replies are so low though so we can make an extra effort for you: mail@asavantage.com
Do I need a visa?
At the moment the Ukraine has opened up to tourist so no visa is required. If a visa was required (other locations), we would let you know, and it is part of our service to arrange it, and provide your invite for the destination in question and confirm the place to stay.
I am having trouble understanding how to search the girls, and having trouble understanding the control panel, can you help?
You need to email us with your name, address, username, and email address, and we will send you a new password.
Will you stop sending letters from other men to the girl I am planning on marrying?
Yes of course, this is automatic when we are notified that a woman is not available for whatever reason. We will remove the woman from the site as soon as we are notified.
I have just joined the site but I am having trouble uploading my photograph. Can you help?
Email it to us with your ID number to mail@asavantage.com, or post it to the address on the home page.
How do I send money to a girl?
Sorry we do not advise any money is sent to any girl. If a lady requests any money from you for any reason, you should notify us at once.
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