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On this page:
1 - Crucial Differences That Make Us Unique
2 - Learn to Choose and be Selective
3 - Who is this service is ideally for?
1 - Crucial Differences That Make Us Unique
Introduction
There are many very important reasons why you should choose us! International dating is a massive industry. If you think mobile phones, porn, or internet marketing is big, well, international dating is amongst those categories in terms of size. International dating is not however as well known in the UK as it is in the USA, for example, so it is very important to have a good understand before you get involved, or you could get stung. This site was set up by a man called Steve (see "about us") who experienced many of the problems first hand, which means that you can avoid making those same mistakes, which will effectively ensure the journey is thrilling, as it should be, with less expenditure. Some of our unique characteristics can more easily be explained in contrast with what we do NOT do!
We DON'T say, "simply choose twenty ladies and pay for a tour, and come and meet them". When you arrive under those circumstances, the agency would then try to introduce you to their selection of ladies, which is not what you chose at outset.
We DO know for a fact that if you choose 20 ladies, there may only be say 5 that are both available and interested (figures obviously vary, but it would be a lie to say all ladies will be interested. So we tell you. We are fair and realistic. You may need to write to 80 ladies to find 20 interested ladies (whatever). As long as you communicate with actual ladies that you have selected by yourself, then you will be thrilled with our services.
We DON'T pay staff to make up letters, as if they are the lady you have selected. Imagine staff in an office, on a bonus system writing letters - totally unforgivable, totally criminal.
We DO offer "unlimited" communication packages which are conducive to quality rather than quantity. If a lady is not available or not interested we tell you, and say, write to more ladies (free unlimited letters). Many ladies log in at www.english-dating.com to make their replies, and some can reply in English by themselves. Those that don't write English, we translate for them. Those that don't have internet or use internet infrequently, we phone them to get the reply over the phone. Men that do not get as many replies as they would have hoped for, recieving additonal marketing of their profile.
We DON'T ask you to pay for for a tour, and then when you arrive in Kiev, pile on a load of extra expenses.
We DO tell you that we allow 15% of your tour price to cover adhoc expenses. Most of our ladies are in Kiev. If you chose 20 ladies from Russia, then we cant pay 20 train fares or 20 flight fares, as it is not possible. Its about common sense. Normaly, guys choose maybe 2 or 3 ladies from afar. We establish the ladies needs, if she needs assistance with expenses. If so, then we balance the expenses against the tour expense allowance, and then tell you how much extra you will need to pay when you arrive in Kiev. You know exactly in advance. The key is knowing the truth!
We DON'T just allow the prettiest ladies to join our site. Lets be realistic.
We DO allow most ladies to join our site. A recent tour member said that is what made him think our site was the most genuine, and he said it was a good move. But it's not just that. Most men do like looks, but often, pesonality can and does come into the equation. Also, it is a fact that many ladies do not have professional photos, and we believe that most of our tour members will be pleasantly surprised by the ensuing reality. Again, this brings satisfaction to the member. No delusions here. Put in a little time and effort, and we will ensure we find you ladies who are interested. This has got to be a crucial element of making this a success.
We DON'T get staff to send you false messages, that ladies are intersted in you, just to get you to join or upgrade.
We DO allow ladies to send an "expression of wish" themselves. This is a polite letter asking you to write first. But very few ladies are actually using this functionality, because so few ladies think they have got any chance of being selected by a man from the West. You may get the occasional expression of wish from a lady that you would not even be seen with, let alone date, but do not take offence. Be delighted that you have found this site and that at least it is genuine. All you have got to do is write to ladies you do like, you will know very soon we are genuine, so crack on, start writing now, and start getting ready to meet these real ladies at a time that suits you.
More information to follow
2 - Learn to Choose and be Selective
Why is it that some men (including me) find it so hard to be selective? It's because we have never lived in heaven (is that a good analogy?). Ultimately thats where most women in the UK live, heaven on earth. Most UK dating sites are over subscribed with men, five or ten to one, so you really have to be one of the lucky ones to find a partner there. Most guys have never been in a situation where they have got dozens of ladies seeking to date them, so how can they quickly get to grips with a whole zeitgeist of change.
So, thats why I rant on about communicating with as many ladies as possible, because its about having choice, and doing what you have never done before, so that you can find happiness.
Some guys do really well building up their contacts for a tour. And what has happened a few times when they meet face to face with a beautiful lady - is meltdown (not sure if that's the right way to put it). Put in plain words, they fall for the first lady they like, and cancel the rest of their meetings. I strongly advise against this, because it has got something to do with what I am writing in the paragraphes above. If there are any psychologists out there reading this, then please contact me because I would like you to write a section on the issues I raise here.
3 - Who is this service is ideally for?
Single Men
Age 25 to 65
Financially Stable
Enjoys to Travel
Has free time at weekends or Annual Holidays
Has his own accomodation
Likes to meet ladies
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