0006 International Dating Security Tips

Their are some key issues about security that it is crucial for men to bare in mind when choosing any dating agency. The concept of dating is not like the concept of purchasing goods from a retailer. It is much more important: the right to found a family is a basic human right, and if the odds are stacked against you in one country, it makes sense to consider going where the odds are in your favour. The importance of the concept of dating requires a higher degree of security than a standard business transaction, because dating is both sensitive and serious business for serious people, and the importance of the process of finding a suitable partner should not be abused by unscrupulous dating agencies. In the UK, dating agencies are heavily weighted against men, so that in itself is an inequality and arguably an injustice, but many international agencies operate a common scam, which is sending bogus translated letters without a ladies consent - which the man pays for. That is why it is of supreme importance that you can randomly check the validity of your efforts, not least by requesting i.d, you should also have the opportunity to randomly select ladies actual phone numbers, even if their English is very poor.

Top Tip

The most important document to request from a lady directly, or via a dating agency, or a potential is the passport. A decent quantity of personal photos is also essential. A scammer (company or individual) is not going to provide their passport information in a hurry, so you MUST first establish communications with the company and check them out first. Check their company address. Ensure that you can easily contact that company by phone (prime factor), and then request I.D. A Passport is absolutely crucial if you use an international agency. Other forms of i.d may be OK in the UK, however why not ask for a passport as well? So, the first step is to check the company out. Never trust a website that does not provide easy phone contact details. Also enquire to the full name of the persons you deal with before asking for any documents, for obvious reasons, to ensure they match. Though you may not be able to read the language, you will be able to see the similariies in the letters of the name, and photos also go a long way. You could ask the lady if she would send you a photo with her holding a piece of paper with your name on on - that is pretty watertight (may sound extreme but steps must be taken if you have not verified the agency identification first.

The Passport

In Russia and the Ukraine, everybody over 16 has a passport. Do not accept anything less. Of course you will need to be tactful with most ladies about this and the company should help you. You should offer and agree to provide yours also, however this is very much not likely to be requested because we will have already verified you as a valid active member.

Page 1 of the passport shows their full name and photo and passport number. This page is obviously crucial to confirming identity.

Page 10 of the passport shows marital status. I recommend you check that page also, as it will prove the lady is single, and if she is / has been married / divorced, with a stamp for each eventuality.

All women all over the world seek financial security for their future, and their potential family. It is not too much to ask that they give you peace of mind with the security of the provision of identification. Just be tactful, and check the agency out first, and of course once that hurdle is out of the way, they will know that you are serious and will want to make further checks with the ladies you meet later.

Thank you for taking time to read this article. If you have any questions, don't hesitate to contact Steve Fowler.

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